3 Rules of Rebounding
Sometimes you need to start dating again. Hot ‘distraction’, anyone?
1. Broaden your horizons
So, your ex was a commitment-phobic intellectual and you’re rebounding with a clingy gym-addict? It is healthy to ‘try’ new types of men. Many women need an overly attentive man they wouldn’t normally consider, to salve their ego.
2. Don’t rush it
You’ve heard the saying, ‘The best way to get over someone is to get under someone else.’ But women aren’t great at having casual sex, due to the bonding chemicals they produce and having sex too soon can delay your ability to see the rebound man with 20/20 vision. You’ll see everything through the lens of your libido.
3. Spot transference
When you’re rebounding, your new relationship is actually about the old one. So when you’re on the verge of saying. “I love you” or get irrationally angry with him, think about who you really want to love or rant at. You are often not ready for a serious relationship until a year after a big split.
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