Relationship In Love

Lip-trembling sex is like a cocktail—delicious, preferably long and guaranteed to leave you light-headed. And just like every great cocktail needs a secret ingredient, a sensational sex life takes something special to make it rock.
From wearing nothing but a dab of Agent Provocateur perfume to imagining you’re getting down and dirty with Daniel Craig, there are some shortcuts to feeling bold in the bedroom.

1. Dress Sexy
There’s something sexy about wearing accessories, without clothes. You’d be surprised how powerful a girl can feel wearing nothing but heels and a couple of long beaded necklaces or a silk scarf. Even if it doesn’t do much for you, seeing him with his tongue on the floor should do the trick.

2. Think Sexy
The more turned on you are, the less you’ll worry about your sexual performance. Switch your anxious thoughts for sexy ones and focus on a fantasy that will keep you distracted from your insecurities. When he sees that you’re letting yourself go, he’ll feel free to relax—happy in the knowledge that you wants this as much as he does.

3. Pick a Role Model
The fastest way to get confidence is to borrow somebody else’s. Think of a person you see as supremely confident and sexy—be it Marilyn Monroe, Angelina Jolie or Megan Fox—then step into their shoes and pretend to be them. Absorb the qualities you admire and make them your own.

4. Take a Risk
Nothing boosts confidence more than daring to try something new. Bite the bullet and tell him about that thing you’ve always wanted to try but felt too shy to ask for. Confidence in bed is the art of being able to ask for what you want.

5. Tie Him Up—And Blind Him if Necessary
Rendering him helpless to your whims will instantly give you a sense of sexual power. Play with it, feel what it is like to be in charge of everything, and remember to warn him that unless he does as he’s told, you’ll tease him to within an inch of his orgasm.