Make a Relationship Happen in 2010
How many of us have squeezed our eyes shut to the sound of the New Year bongs and wished this year will be The Year We Meet The One? It can be daunting to have such a huge resolution. So break it down into smaller, doable stages.
Here are five love-changing tips that could make your resolution a reality.
1. Spread the word
There is nothing wrong with letting people know you are looking. They’ll have relatives, workmates and friends of friends that could be your perfect fit.
2. Ditch your shopping list
If you have too many demands, you search will be fruitless. Make a list of three non-negotiable and stick to that. For example, sense of humor, adventurous and kind. Forget about him wearing the right jeans, you’re making life hard for no reason.
3. Try finite dating
Given an hour of your time to men you’d normally say no to. If it goes badly, you won’t have wasted too much time, but you never know, he might be what you’re looking for.
4. Be specific
When it comes to online dating, spelling out how you like to spend Saturdays or why you loved Glastonbury with help draw like-minded men towards you.
5. Take your eye off the ball
Turning every occasion into a search for Mr. Perfect is draining and you risk creating a desperate aura. Instead, ramp up your social life and say yes to every invitation.
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